tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5083122817368521892.post3620449650047210919..comments2024-03-27T22:26:44.037+05:30Comments on RENDEZVOUS: Good Guy Vs Bad GuySEPOhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18165767356704947895noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5083122817368521892.post-86498903878646718332015-12-20T06:17:09.606+05:302015-12-20T06:17:09.606+05:30Well, there are two types of nice guys:
1. Confid...Well, there are two types of nice guys:<br /><br />1. Confident nice guy (secure and genuinely nice)<br />2. Doormat nice guy (insecure and weak)<br /><br />A Confident nice guy is someone who has self esteem and individuality. He is extremely sweet, he can come across as overly-nice, cares and respects people around him but at the end of the day, he is strong and exciting as well - he'll still have his boundaries clearly defined. This guy will challenge his girl, seduces her, empowers her and at the same time will love, honour and value her.<br /><br />A doormat is the guy who is always walked all over cause he is a people pleaser. He is boring and weak cause he is afraid of making enemies and wants to play safe always. He is useless cause he spends all his life smiling and nodding to everything he is asked/told to do.<br /><br />The reason why I can tell the difference between these two categories is because I have confidence in myself and I am secure and comfortable being myself. I stand strong for what I believe in. When people try to rub their thoughts on me, I tell them straight to their face to "f*** right off / kiss my a** " - they feel like they've just received a tight slap from me and realize that they can't use me, I am a man of self-respect and individuality and I do only what I feel like doing and nobody can walk over me. As long as someone is nice to me, I am the nicest guy they'd have ever met on this planet. The moment they treat me wrong, I'll tell them to f*** off and won't give a s**t anymore. Probably none of my blogger friends got a chance to see this side of me cause nobody has ever argued with me / forced their thoughts on me or tried to make me say or do something that I dislike.<br /><br />I know the same will happen in future with my partner. Whenever necessary, I will challenge her and will intellectually argue with her to prove a point. Cause it's pointless if someone simply nods and agrees to everything that is said to them. <br /><br />My definition of bad guys is they are arrogant cocky pricks also popularly known as selfish manipulative bas***ds who mask their insecurities with over-confidence and come across as jerks.<br /><br />I think the reason girls like arrogant guys is cause of their in-built sexual fantasies: they crave to be dominated, someone who controls her, ties her up, whips her. They'll want that rebellious attitude and wildness to satisfy their desires. But girls who meet confident nice guys will eventually realize that a true man only gives the best to his girl in bed - variety is the spice of life - so it is all about role play - he can be wild like an animal or gentle and sweet - a gentleman is an expert in seductive games. And the so called bad guys are morons who wouldn't have a f*****g clue how to handle her by touching her at the right place at the right time and in the right way is important cause bad guys are violent and the girl might get exposed to domestic violence.<br /><br />Normally attention seeking girls fall for bad guys. They suffer cause bad guys are not committed. And I believe every girl although have a fantasy of being with a bad guy will eventually choose a confident nice guy cause she can trust his loyalty.<br /><br />OMG! I'm just wondering now if my comment turned out longer than the actual blog post!! I better conclude this here :) <br /><br />I recommend every girl to find a guy who is confident, kind-hearted, forgiving, dependable, committed and is a great listener (cause girls love to talk - so it is important he listens and understands).<br /><br />To sum it all up in short. Girls you gotta find a guy who after every argument has the balls to put his ego aside, walks up to you, will look straight into your eyes and will say, "Darling, I'm sorry. It's all my fault." <br /><br />And you know why he does that - not because he is always wrong but because he puts the relationship always ahead of his ego.<br /><br />All the Best,<br />Sai :)Sai Charanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09922029711707519134noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5083122817368521892.post-92069541679165007132015-12-20T06:15:00.674+05:302015-12-20T06:15:00.674+05:30Interesting post Sneha!
Read this post, then had ...Interesting post Sneha!<br /><br />Read this post, then had my dinner and now back to leisurely share my opinion, cause I didn't wanted to rush and write just a line or two.You are well aware of my proficiency on topics of love, romance and relationship, so let me share my thoughts.<br /><br />I disagree with everything about this post except the last/concluding paragraph. Not every girl fits into the stereotype of, "Every girl wants a bad boy". If this quote had any truth, all the self-proclaimed nice guys would end up taking the quote as an excuse to turn into complete douchebags.<br /><br />Girls have individual preferences, they all vary depending on what feature/quality they find most attractive in guys.<br /><br />Girls get attracted to confidence. In my life, I've received compliments from girls every time I showed confidence, so this point comes straight from my personal experience. Girls love that trait in guys.<br /><br />Girls get attracted to guys who excite them, challenge them and at the same time make them feel special. Guys who are kind, caring and respectful.<br /><br />Girls get attracted to genuine guys who are mature enough to understand the practicalities of life and not fake guys.<br />Sai Charanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09922029711707519134noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5083122817368521892.post-15477382792771391902015-11-02T19:45:47.626+05:302015-11-02T19:45:47.626+05:30That's an interesting perspective depicting th...That's an interesting perspective depicting the guys that girls fall for. Just trust yourself and find someone who will respect you, your beliefs and who you are as a person.Vishal Bheeroohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01085897828634157572noreply@blogger.com